Posts Tagged ‘slave’
Earlier this week was My One Year Anniversary with boy! It has truly been a year of growing together. Two private and reserved people getting to know each other doesn’t happen overnight!
Some memorable moments have happened. boy being threatened multiple times by other male subs that are interested in Me; needless to say they are NOT part of My life. boy being shot – not related to U/us; THANK YOU! boy telling a family member that I am his Mistress and to call Me in case something happens. boy’s first release without masturbation in a few years – that day with the strap-on was UNREAL! Our first kiss outside Atlanta Leather Company! boy presenting Me with his slave registry after I became his Owner. boy being the better backgammon player – annoying, but true. AND, all the “user” (that would be Me) errors!
Yes, there are still many things to grow into . . . simply knowing each other better, taking my first ride on the back of boy’s new motorcycle – being his bitch, perhaps one day having boy collared, winding our way through poly, and more . . .
The BEST gift boy has ever given was when he told me that I would be his last Mistress. What an awesome responsibility, promise, and gift. I truly enjoy having boy as part of My life.
Recently went to lunch with a female slave. This is the first time we have had an opportunity to spend any real time together. she has been in her first M/s relationship and not really available to make Dom friends. That relationship ended and she is finding support in the community in unexpected places.
- she was taught many protocols; she was not taught that protocols are relationship specific.
- she was taught about slavery; she was not taught that slavery comes in many forms.
- she was taught that the Dom comes first; she was not taught that her needs should be met as well.
- she was taught that play is a reward; she was not taught that other Dom’s believe different.
- she was taught that Dom’s are exacting: she was not taught that each Dom handles imperfection different.
I hope that she and I continue to build a friendship and that she finds happiness.
To all s-types:
- YOU deserve respect.
- YOU deserve to be happy.
Do not forget this; do not let anyone take these away from you.
How to be a slave? Be yourself, be who you are, be respected.
Last week, Dr. Neustifter posted an interview on Exploring Intimacy regarding BDSM, Sounds, and a taste of the 24/7 Master/slave “lifestyle”. She was easy to work with, delivered on all her promises, and followed up in chats on other blogs. Truly she was a consummate professional.
Thank you!
Why, all the things that simply don’t seem like that much fun . . . take yesterday for example! I went out to do a little shopping and realized that I needed gas; but, thankfully, had JUST enough to run my errands and make it home safely.
boy had also recently looked at my car and ask WHEN was the last time I had the changed . . . uhm, a while ago. Read the rest of this entry »