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From a FetLife group . . . really?!?!?!? Sometimes you just gotta LOVE people!
Group: 21st Century Feminism
Subject: what a great idea…
Fathernature started this discussion about 22 hours ago
for a discussion group. Is feminism a reactionary movement? History certainly shows the need for reaction against inequities based on gender especially toward women. It’s refreshing to hear a new wave of feminism has arisen, but my experience as an egalitarian man, who has respected women all my life, is women need to refocus away from the behavior of emasculating harpies that Oprah, Andrea Dworkin et al have promulgated so successfully. If all are interested in freeing our souls, the vengeful, deceitful, conniving, spirits rampant in female hearts must be exorcised. My evidence is anecdotal and rather than turn this into a misogynistic-sounding rant, I only say I have no vestige of personal penance to perform regardless of how badly some other man has treated some woman. It’s not up to me to balance the scales being a dartboard for smoldering female grievances. Women of this Third Wave may find my words bitter and divisive. I’m not and that is not my intention. I’ll give anyone the benefit of doubt if it is returned in kind.
The High Protocol group on Fetlife started a new REAL-time group: PLEASE. This group had its first event last weekend. Hosted by Lady HotchKiss with an erotic reading, cigars and brandy, and some GREAT (if I don’t say so myself) food!
Mom was in attendance and was able to meet My friends and ask questions about living in the “lifestyle”. What she learned was that we are essentially normal people with nonmainstream interests; that she would LOVE to be friends with Ms. Martha; that My friends were warm, outgoing, willing to discuss, and highly educated about who they are and what they want.
Nikita The Writer read two passages from her book “Tales From the Whipping Post” and one passage from Wolffie’s book. Nikita’s stories are a blend of naivete, charm, and raunch; just like the author. Wolffie’s excerpt was expertly written, melodic, forceful, and a he has quite a unique voice. As if that is not enough, English is his second language!
The GREAT food included Vodka Ginger Lemonade, brownies, and pistachio white-chocolate cookies (recipe still being hunted down).
There were a variety of cigars being smoked. I had the opportunity to try an Alec Bradley Tempus Creo and LOVED it. The spicy (peppery) flavor was OUTSTANDING; even if sled thought it was TOO much. Thank you RUMZ for sharing your treasure.
Since it was a “House” Warming I also got a variety of gifts: from Courvoisier to Dom Perignon to a steel reinforced leather paddle. Nothing like a BDSM “Warming” gift!
Thank you all for such a wonderful evening.
Why do our “elders” not come out more often?
- Why do those with experience, poise, and a sense of tradition do not frequent our local establishments?
- Why are they silent?
- Why are they not there to lead?
Here is the answer (a friend wrote to Me):
Greetings and Farewell – I’ve been a Gentleman Dom all My life and of late from what I’ve seen of the Lifestyle portrayed here in large part — it’s time I moved on. Read the rest of this entry »