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	<title>Lady HotchKiss Says &#187; Personal Development</title>
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		<title>Internet Forums</title>
		<link>http://ladyhotchkiss.com/2010/03/internet-forums/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Mar 2010 21:52:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lady HotchKiss</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[We all participate in a variety of internet groups and forums.&#160; Fetlife being one of the major lifestyle related groups. &#160; So often we end in or seeing fights, nastiness, and other unnecessary crap.&#160; We get sucked into threads, arguments, etc.&#160; I moderate several groups, some of them are even larger (1k+). &#160; Everyone seems [...]


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		<title>Attributes I Seek</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Feb 2010 22:00:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lady HotchKiss</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Recently, I was asked what characteristics or attributes do I seek in a slave?&#160; You would think the answer would be easy!&#160; Some were readily apparent . . . others are taking longer to suss out. Here is My beginning list: Trust Honor Respect Effective communication Protection Obedience Intelligent service Craving to serve exceptionally Manifest [...]


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		<title>Play, Service, Worship</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Feb 2010 21:05:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lady HotchKiss</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[As EVERYONE knows words have meaning; just not the SAME meaning for everyone.&#160; This is especially true in the &#34;lifestyle&#34;.&#160; Each word seems to have a shade of difference in its meaning, intent, point of view; FOR EACH PERSON.&#160; While annoying it is reality. Play, Service, and Worship are important words in the FemDom world.&#160; [...]


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		<title>Twueness</title>
		<link>http://ladyhotchkiss.com/2010/02/twueness/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Feb 2010 19:00:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lady HotchKiss</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[There is a continuing topic on Fetlife, and by continuing I mean NEVER ending! &#160; Typically, it is about some aspect of how a person identifies:&#160; Dom, Top, bottom, slave, switch, etc.&#160; If you don&#8217;t immediately see that I have value in your life you are not a true Dom! How can you be a [...]


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<li><a href='http://ladyhotchkiss.com/2009/08/our-first/' rel='bookmark' title='Permanent Link: Our First'>Our First</a></li>
<li><a href='http://ladyhotchkiss.com/2009/10/kinds-of-wealth/' rel='bookmark' title='Permanent Link: Kinds of Wealth?'>Kinds of Wealth?</a></li>
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		<title>Patience = NOT a virtue</title>
		<link>http://ladyhotchkiss.com/2010/01/patience-not-a-virtue/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Jan 2010 19:00:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lady HotchKiss</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[We are taught REPEATEDLY and over and over that patience is a virtue. I have never understood this. Patience can be a virtue sometimes; but, like anything else . . . not always. Yet, we never hear that impatience is a virtue! And I mean NEVER. I always remember this idea from college . . [...]


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		<title>Parade Crap</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 15 Jan 2010 19:00:10 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lady HotchKiss</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[How do you want to live your life? Do you have a clear vision? Can you write it down? Have you written it down? Should you write it down? This is similar to other goal setting I have talked about. I don’t have a written vision statement for My life; I do have things that [...]


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		<title>Cold Play?</title>
		<link>http://ladyhotchkiss.com/2010/01/cold-play/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 08 Jan 2010 16:00:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lady HotchKiss</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Living in Atlanta . . . this happens less than once a year . . . enjoy the pic! The personal development blog post was put on hold for this current event! Also, don&#8217;t forget that I have another blog House of Hotchkiss for BDSM.  This series is inspired by a personal development magazine. Click [...]


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		<title>2010 Theme</title>
		<link>http://ladyhotchkiss.com/2010/01/2010-theme/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 02 Jan 2010 19:00:20 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lady HotchKiss</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[What is your method of starting the New Year? Do you make a New Year’s Resolution? Do you do something else? I don’t make New Year’s Resolutions and haven’t for over a decade. My sister told Me that she had a theme or phase for the year. This seemed imminently more reasonable than some unforgiving [...]


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		<title>Decision Bubbles</title>
		<link>http://ladyhotchkiss.com/2009/12/decision-bubbles/</link>
		<comments>http://ladyhotchkiss.com/2009/12/decision-bubbles/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 18 Dec 2009 15:31:45 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lady HotchKiss</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Visual how you make decisions. What is your model? If you had to explain it to someone could you? Until a few days ago, I couldn’t. Turns out that a friend makes decisions like in a strict flow chart; yes and no. If there is maybe; the responses are yes or (go or no go). [...]


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		<title>I am OLD!?!</title>
		<link>http://ladyhotchkiss.com/2009/12/i-am-old/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Dec 2009 20:11:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lady HotchKiss</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Personal Development]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[In the last few weeks on a variety of boards I have come to realize something.  I am not too proud of it; I am OLD.  I have noticed that there is a rash of people asking for BASIC information.  By this I mean information that could readily be found by using Google and perhaps [...]


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