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From a FetLife group . . . really?!?!?!? Sometimes you just gotta LOVE people!
Group: 21st Century Feminism
Subject: what a great idea…
Fathernature started this discussion about 22 hours ago
for a discussion group. Is feminism a reactionary movement? History certainly shows the need for reaction against inequities based on gender especially toward women. It’s refreshing to hear a new wave of feminism has arisen, but my experience as an egalitarian man, who has respected women all my life, is women need to refocus away from the behavior of emasculating harpies that Oprah, Andrea Dworkin et al have promulgated so successfully. If all are interested in freeing our souls, the vengeful, deceitful, conniving, spirits rampant in female hearts must be exorcised. My evidence is anecdotal and rather than turn this into a misogynistic-sounding rant, I only say I have no vestige of personal penance to perform regardless of how badly some other man has treated some woman. It’s not up to me to balance the scales being a dartboard for smoldering female grievances. Women of this Third Wave may find my words bitter and divisive. I’m not and that is not my intention. I’ll give anyone the benefit of doubt if it is returned in kind.
Recently went to lunch with a female slave. This is the first time we have had an opportunity to spend any real time together. she has been in her first M/s relationship and not really available to make Dom friends. That relationship ended and she is finding support in the community in unexpected places.
- she was taught many protocols; she was not taught that protocols are relationship specific.
- she was taught about slavery; she was not taught that slavery comes in many forms.
- she was taught that the Dom comes first; she was not taught that her needs should be met as well.
- she was taught that play is a reward; she was not taught that other Dom’s believe different.
- she was taught that Dom’s are exacting: she was not taught that each Dom handles imperfection different.
I hope that she and I continue to build a friendship and that she finds happiness.
To all s-types:
- YOU deserve respect.
- YOU deserve to be happy.
Do not forget this; do not let anyone take these away from you.
How to be a slave? Be yourself, be who you are, be respected.
Why do our “elders” not come out more often?
- Why do those with experience, poise, and a sense of tradition do not frequent our local establishments?
- Why are they silent?
- Why are they not there to lead?
Here is the answer (a friend wrote to Me):
Greetings and Farewell – I’ve been a Gentleman Dom all My life and of late from what I’ve seen of the Lifestyle portrayed here in large part — it’s time I moved on. Read the rest of this entry »
Last night started with drinks at dinner at Atlanta Grill at the Ritz in downtown Atlanta. After sharing a nice Shiraz, we proceeded to dinner; fillet Oscar and a wonderful salad, no dessert – WAY TOO FULL. I regaled him with stories/explanations of the life of a Domme. Needless to say; he was curious. Read the rest of this entry »
Why, all the things that simply don’t seem like that much fun . . . take yesterday for example! I went out to do a little shopping and realized that I needed gas; but, thankfully, had JUST enough to run my errands and make it home safely.
boy had also recently looked at my car and ask WHEN was the last time I had the changed . . . uhm, a while ago. Read the rest of this entry »